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Girls In Traditionally Male Environments?

Lydia-Burney, 2007-11-11 14:24:37
It is my belief that men benefit, learn, and grow from being in women's company. But not all the time. Why do girls lately tend to crash men's solo leisure endeavors... I do not see how a pilgrimage to a strip club, a poker night, or a fishing trip can improve with girls being present. Women, why do you do this? Why is it so hard (almost impossible with my gf) to explain to our women that we need time to ourselves?

2007-11-11 15:46:22 Bernita-Pierce wrote: honestly, if your gf is really that insecure, i think you need to let her go. she obviously needs time to be by herself and gain some confidence before she can be in a relationship free poker games for people 18 years or younger. anyone who can't understand "i need time alone with my friends" is not ready for a relationship free online poker no downloads and no sign ups.

2007-11-11 15:38:01 Manuela-Harding wrote: I've had experience that's how I know; meaning I took the gamble and always won.I don't know why so many women get so clingy and don't understand that there men need some time away. You just need to get rid of that good old clingy habit is all; I never had it, some girls do and that's what they should do, get rid of that clingy habit free strip poker with women in a variety of outfits. So your question should not be about girls in traditionally male environments it should be about why are some women so god damn annoying. The secret is if a guy truly cares for you it even shows in the inward actions that you can't see, when he comes back to you those inward actions you can't see will shine all the more when he comes back. No arguments here; guys do need time to be alone. I've always been comfortable with that; during those time I did my thing and let them do theirs free online poker no downloads and no sign ups free poker games for people 18 years or younger. It often bothers me when my friends constantly call their boyfriends its like "leave him alone." See, it's simple.

2007-11-11 16:06:29 Kaycee-Gardner wrote: If you don't want us to go with you, by all means say so (nicely), but don't expect us to stay away from these places completely.

2007-11-11 15:34:03 Darron-Reade wrote:

Your girlfriend is not being empathetic to your needs in this situation.
I mean, the strip club some girls can get antsy about (I am not one of them, and some women do truly like attending strip climbs or burlesque shows if they tend towards bisexuality or the appreciation of the art of it), but I think they problem is that most girls want their men to understand that they can enjoy their "activities" with them..
Female magazines splash it all over their pages that men like "sporty" women who are willing to shoot a game of pool, or down a buck, or bait a worm.
And I'm sure many do..
however, you need to sit down with your girlfriend and explain to her that just as you're sure she wouldn't want you to join her and her girlfriends at the beauty salon while they gossip about stuff, you need your guy alone time w/your buddies too.
Of course, it may also be that your girlfriend doesn't have a lot of a personal social life, and that she is clinging to you for her source of entertainment.
(I have known other ladies like this).
In this situation I would encourage your girl to spend some time with her family, or perhaps pursuing other activities to make some new friends.
Having no social life outside of your relationship isn't really normal, or healthy.
Good luck with your situation.
Not all women are like this.need time with the "guys" just means you're not yourself around your girlfriend, in which case you are with her for the wrong reasons...
you people should learn to be more inclusive in general...
anyone who goes to strip clubs obviously has issues - male or femaleit shouldn't be that difficult, or you need to invent another gf.
just say it in english: "guys need time to themselves.
you can't come."
you think it's the first time we've heard that?
the he-man women-haters club has chapters all over.
we'll find something even more fun to do.

2007-11-11 15:35:27 Arianne-Burch wrote: He occasionally goes out to play poker but he only does it for the fun of the game, not because he needs the time away from me. That's funny. My husband doesn't seem to feel the need to be around other men even though he lives in a household full of females. I'm sorry to say this but I don't particularly enjoy the company of other women. I couldn't imagine a night out with other women to hang out at bars or go to nightclubs. Maybe some people feel the need to have time out alone with other men or other women but not all people are like this.

2007-11-11 20:45:58 Bronwyn-Teagarden wrote: at the beginning of a relationship, many girls want to spend every single second with a guy. then, once they're married, they know that hubby prefers being with them over anyone else. that's usually the problem - girls are caught in between for months or years at a time free strip poker with women in a variety of outfits. they enjoy being with him, of course, but more than that, they want proof that he wants to be with them over all others - including guy friends. you may be thinking, yeah right - but how many wives tag along vs free strip poker with women in a variety of outfits free strip poker with women in a variety of outfits. live-in girlfriends? hell, i practically push my husband out the door to go out with his brother and a few guys. i no longer have girlfriend "issues" - the game is over, i won. all i think when he goes out is, "i hope he has fun." not, "is he thinking of me? is he talking about me? will his friends try to tell him to dump me?" your gf is clingy because she is madly in love with you and because you are not married. so she is always on "high alert" for checking up on the relationship. tell her not to come, and she wonders, "is he going to dump me?" (yes, she does think that) either find a girl is isn't wildly, passionatly in love with you (and most likely won't have a problem with cheating on you or dumping you), marry her, or wait it out, since perhaps after a lot of time together she'll be more confident that she's won your heart.

2007-11-11 15:32:32 Jesusa-Young wrote:

See how the one above me shot you down by insinuating that you will cheat if your alone?
i am great at fishing and i enjoy poker, and so do many other women.
perhaps your girlfriend wouldn't want to be included in these "male activities" if the stuff you chose to do without her weren't so much fun...
Ask in singles and dating if you want a normal womans response, your only going to get blammed somehow by posting here.
Stating that men cannot be trusted.what, is fishing and playing poker an exclusively male thing?
i think most women understand that, and respect that.
but imagine how aggravating it is for a female who really enjoys fishing and playing poker if she can never go with her boyfriend when he goes?
when i get together with my female friends to have girl's night, we usually just have dinner and talk.
it's nothing so elaborate that one of our boyfriends would be upset at not being able to come.not all women are like that.i would'nt dare to impose on my others time off with his friends.we all need time away from each other,i don't care what he does as long as he comes back home to me.you just should'nt put restrictions on someone because you don't like where they go.
i think maybe trust could be a certain issue.if you can't trust the person you are with then how could there be any love?
that said, i do understand a guy needing time to himself or to just be with his male friends.
Lol why are you asking this in the feminist section?

2007-11-11 16:10:26 Mickey-Focell wrote:

We all need time alone and away, even from the people we love.
It's breathing room; otherwise, we smother.
Men have things they enjoy doing with other men; women have things they enjoy doing with other women.
If that weren't true, feminists wouldn't be fighting for "women only" spaces.
So what's good for one has to be good for the other.
What matters is that we come back to each other, ultimately.

2007-11-11 16:14:05 Shaun-Prechtl wrote: And if I questioned him about it, he'd be quite beligerent. Ironically, I'm dating someone right now who does not feel comfortable with me taking time with my friends- (which I do rarely ever...I'm not like my ex.) But I think it's something we all need to do once in awhile. Our lives should include more than just one person in it. But then again, I was with someone who spent more time with his friends than he did with me, and often he didn't bother to call or come home all night. But I realize that in a healthy relationship, both people need time to themselves, and time alone with their friends. If there's trust, it shouldn't be a problem to be o.k. There was a time in my life (when I was younger and insecure, I suppose) when I was suspicious of a guy's need for time out with friends. with letting each other have some space.

2007-11-11 18:15:40 Robin-Kemerer wrote: if guys have girlfriends, fiances and/or wives then they aren`t supposed to be at strip clubs. also, poker is gambling, so people risk losing everything they have. fishing trips? free strip poker with women in a variety of outfits. can't imagine that being any fun, unless that person is actually catching any fish free strip poker with women in a variety of outfits. you have to have a fishing permit before you fish.

2007-11-12 20:41:44 Lore-Mingle wrote:

If the type of girl who wants to spend all of her time together isn't for you, then go find one who is cool with you going to the peelers or fishing with your buddies.
75% of the people above me are tearing you up right now.
If strippers and small mouth bass are less important than the girl stay with her.
I don't know.
It sounds to me like the women you hang around aren't as interested in the activities as they are in a little male companionship.
Simple math my friend.
It could be that your gf is somewhat clingy.
How cool would you be if your girlfriend got a lap dance from three naked guys with smoking bodies?I agree with glowfish, you asked this question in the wrong spot.

2007-11-11 15:35:13 Wes-Blyant wrote:

Maybe an attention getting ploy, to check up on you, to show her friends how she has control over you or curiosity?
So in essence when you say "time to ourselves," this means time with other women.
I think it could be many things.
Good luck!As you say"pilgrimage to a strip club".
You just answered your own question.
Women do love fishing trips & poker nite as well.
I'm not interested in barging into my man's "guy time" & I like my time as well.
Your statement is hypocritical when you say you don't benefit from womens company all the time, but you visit them at strip clubs!!
I think it keeps things on a healthier level.
Won't you feel like a prisoner?
A power thing?
I'm not sure.
If your woman is so insecure that she has to appear everywhere you go, how will you feel a year from now, when you can't even go to the bathroom by yourself?
We don't understand why you find going to a strip club necessary.

2007-11-11 15:48:10 Bernardo-Marriman wrote: If female company is what turns you on, have a deep and intelligent conversation with a female friend/girlfriend, rather than promoting the degradation of women. That's life. What you're really saying is you'd rather be in the company of women who very freely, willingly and lovingly strip in front of hundreds of salivating and sweating strangers, including your buddies and yourself and deem this as a guy's night out. Eveyone from the mob to drug dealers to ex-convicts. Wow! Same goes for women. People need ME time and WE time with loved ones/friends/peers. Second, "men's night out" doesn't exactly mean going to a T&A bar. I am first to recognize the utmost importance of this. I personally find male strip clubs crawling with the lowest form of human life possible. Cheers :) You clearly like to be in the disrespectful/negative company of women. ICK! You have decided to contradict yourself, haven't you? You buried yourself way before you pressed the enter key. Don't get me wrong. First off, as a woman barber (working in an all male barber shop), and having done so for the better part of 12 years, I seem to understand men more than they understand themselves. However, when you said strip club, you lost me. I am married to my best friend, for four wonderful years, and I am quick to encourage him to participate in a "men's night out"/golfing or fishing among his male friends. If this turns you and your friends on and you think nothing of the promotion of jiggling t!tt!ies and exposed c00ches, then don't come on this forum and cotradict yourself! Remember, I am a female who's never had sisters, is close to her father, sat with guys at the high school cafeteria lunch table all four years, and has worked in all male barber shops for over 12 years. You and I both know full well what consists of a guy's night out.

2007-11-11 15:36:12 Otha-Briggs wrote: Some people have confused certain issues.Women have a right to equal opportunity in employment. So they have a right not to be excluded from various jobs, even if they've been male-dominated. They also have a right not to be sexually harassed and this includes men not engaging in behavior that they know will make the woman feel isolated and excluded, like sexist jokes, sexual humor, etc.That's because equality of opportunity in employment is a fundamental right. It is a basic component of human flourishing.But some women don't get the REASON for that right and think they should just have the right to stick their noses anyplace they like and impose their sensibilities on men. It's complete and utter BS.

2007-11-11 15:50:34 Young-Shaner wrote: Sounds like you need a new girlfriend if she can't understand you need time to yourself. Either she is extremely insecure or she has reason to distrust you.However, there are also compromises that are made in relationships. Maybe she objects to certain types of "men's solo leisure activities."